
Legacy Planning: Video Ethical Wills

Often, we think of financial security as the gift we'll give others—some day. Yet, what connects us most with a joyful life is knowing who we are, where we came from, and what those who love us, wish for us most.
I work with families and individuals to celebrate and honor individual family legacy and preserve family history, ideology and traditions through a vide-ocumentary process involving interviews, consultation, and planning. The end result is a vide-ocumentary ethical will that will be cherished for generations to come.
Your dreams, goals, desires, accomplishments, failures—those things that made you laugh, cry or thrill to be alive—the stories of your life—these are your true legacy—the greatest gift you can give—the gift of heart.
We invite you to begin the process of sharing your true legacy—the stories of your life—because they are you—the you people will treasure tomorrow, as much as they do today.
My mother gave me music;
she taught me to sing.
My father showed me courage
and many other things.
Oh, so many years it’s been,
yet, one thing’s never changed
I would give the world to hear
their voices once again!
How will your loved ones remember you?
Karen Russell's first husband, Michael Press, often left her notes--in her shoes, inside a cereal box. She was likely to pick up the toilet seat and find a short, irreverent poem.
A few months after Press unexpectedly died at age twenty-nine, Russell was cleaning her guest bathroom when she found a piece of paper covered with his tiny script at the bottom of a Kleenex box.
It was not one of his gags, but a letter that began,
"You, Karen, are a special jewel in the universe."
Press had composed the note expecting to watch his wife live out her dreams, but what he planted under the pile of tissues turned out to be his last testament to his wife.
"Never doubt yourself, for you possess marvelous talents," he had written.
The above excerpted from Something to Remember Me By
Science & Spirit: exploring things that matter
--Paul O'Donnel
How will your loved ones remember you?